Apni Respect Kaise Banaye – Samman Se Jiye – अपनी रिस्पेक्ट कैसे बनाए


Apni Respect Kaise Banaye - Samman Se Jiye

Apni Respect Kaise Banaye – Samman Se Jiye

Apni Respect Kaise Banaye – सम्मान से जिए

Kehte hain ki “jiwan main naam, maan, shaan, shohrat sab chala jaye toh koi baat nahi but agar apke character par koi daag lag jaye toh maano jiwan khatam”. Hum sabhi jiwan bhar apne character ki raskha ke liye jaddo jehat karte hain because jab is dunia se jane ka wakt aye toh hum bedaag hokar jaye. Thik aise hi samman ke liye bhi kaha ja sakta hai. Hum sabhi chahte hain ki hamare jiwan main hum humesha sabhi se samman prapt ho but samman dena koi nahi chahta hain. Koi bhi beaabru or apmanit hokar jina pasand nahi karta. Toh chaliye jante he apni respect kaise banaye and samman se jiye ye tarike apnakar.

Respect / Samman He Jaruri

Dunia main har insan yeh chahta hain ki har kisi se usko respect mile aur woh jaha bhi jaye waha parb usko izzat mile. Lekin problem toh yeh hain ki hum apne liye respect banaye toh banaye kaise ? Akhir apne liye respect banana koi baccho ka khel toh hain nahi. Kafi mehnat karne ki zarurat parti hain tab jakar koi bhi insan apne liye respect aur izzat kamane main safal ho pata hain. Aaj hum apne iss lekh main aap logo ko yehi batayenge ki kin kin tariko ko apnakar hum apne liye respect aur izzat kamane main safal ho sakte hain. Bharosha kariye inn tricks ko follow karke ke baad aap logo ko yeh acchi tarah se samajh main aa jayega ki hum kaise apne liye respect aur izzat kama sakte hain. Toh bas aap log inn tricks ko dhyan se padhiye aur apne liye bharpur respect aur izzat kama lijiye.

Respect pane ke kuchh tarike

Pahle aap respect kare

Agar aap yeh chahte hain ki log aapki respect kare aur kuchh logo ke bich aapki izzat ho toh pahle aapko izzat deni sikhni hogi. Agar aap logo ki respect karenge toh log bhi aapki izzat zarur karenge. Yakin maniye dosto agar aap kisi insan ko respect karenge toh woh insa bhi aapki respect karne se khud Ko rok nahi payega aur woh insan automatically aapki respect karega. Ayesa karne se aapko toh respect milega hi sath sath aapka nature bhi kafi develop ho jayega. Isiliye aap agar izzat pana chahte hain toh pahle aap logo ko izzat dijiye.

Logo ki help kare

Agar koi insan humari respect karta hain toh uske respect karne ke puche koi na koi solid reason zarur hota hain. Agar koi insan aapki respect kar raha hain toh uska ek reason yeh bhi ho sakta hain aapne uski koi help ki ho ya aap uss insan ki help karte hain. Isiliye yeh ek bahut asan aur saral tarika hain respect pane ka ki aap har ek insan ki help kare. Ayesa karne se aap logo se respect aur izzat kamane main zarur safal ho jayenge.

Kabhi bhi kisi ki insult na kare

Kisi insan ki insult kar dena ek bahut hi buri adat hoti hain. Yeh adat kisi bhi insan ko bahut niche gira deti hain. Jis bhi insan main ayesi adat hoti hain wese logo ko kabhi bhi koi bhi pasand nahi karta. Agar aap log apni respect banana chahte hain toh aap log kabhi bhi kisi bhi insan ki insult na kare. Agar aap kisi ko izzat de sake toh de lekin usko be – izzat kabhi bhi na kare. Kisi bhi insan ko jab hum be – izzat karte hain toh uske nazar main bhi hum puri tarah se gir jate hain. Ayese main koi hume izzat de aur respect kare iss baat ki hum ummid bilkul bhi nahi kar sakte hain. Isiliye aap log kabhi bhi kisi ki insult na kare.

Kamjor aatma samman hanikarak hota hain

Jab dusre hamari aalochana karte hain or hamare peeth ke piche yadi hamari glani karte hain, tab hum naraj hokar or gussa unhe partikriya dete hain. Toh hum jaise unhe khud ke liye yeh siddh kar batate hain ki hamara aatma samman itna kamjor hain jo kisike bhi pathar marne se toot jayega. Is durbalta ka mukhya reason hain hamare aatma samman ki kamjhor buniyaad. Jo kisi ki bhi man, wachn, karm ke vyvhaar se hilta rehta hai.

Hum badi asaani se yeh bhul jate hain ki hamare ird gird jo bhi log hain uun sabhi ki hamare parti alag alag raai hoti hain. Jiske baare main hum kabhi pata bhi kar nahi paate kyuki hum kisike man main kya chal raha hain yeh dekh or sun nahi sakte hain.

Khud ko jano to sab jan jaoge

Man lijiye yadi hum kisi ka man padh bhi le to kya unko apni swatantra raye rakhne ka adhikar nahi hai? Bilkul hai isliye samajhdar vyakti vah hai jo dusroo ki raye ki fikra karne ki bajaye apne atma samman ki unchai par sthir rehkar, glani, ko gyan ninda ko mahima aur apman ko swabhiman me pervartit kare atah jab hame apne aap ki pehchan ho jati hai tab hame dusroo ki rai par nirbhar hone ki koi bhi avashyakta nahi rehti hai.

Swabhiman aur atma samman me bahut gehra rishta

Samman aur aatma samman me bahut gehra rishta hai. Kisi ek ke bina dusra sambhav nahi. Hum sabhi ko bachpan se hi dusroo ko samman dene ka paath padhaya gaya hai. Parantu kya aaj tak kisi ne hume yeh sikhkaya ki hum apne apko kaise samman de? shayad nahi, isi vajah se aaj humare sambandh me samanjasya nahi raha aur antarik aur bahar ke sangharsh se sada jhujhte rahe hai. Samman ki kami ke karan humare jiwan banaye rakhna  me besurapan aur nakaratmak aa gayi hai.

Atah hum sthir aur sakaratmak  jiwan banaye rakhna chahte hai. Humare liye samman me rehna anivarye hai phir chahe humare bhiter se jaise ko taisa dusro ke prati ki galatfaimy aur asthirta jaisi anek jo khamiya hai veh nikal jayengi aur hum bilkul achal hoker jiwan ka anand le payenge.

Yadi samman chahte ho, toh samman do

Apne swabhimaan ko majboot karne ka ekmatra saral upaye hain dusro ko maan dena. Chaahe samne wale kaise bhi ho, but aap sabhi ko maan dete chale toh apke swabhimaan main apne aap hi izaafa hota rahega. Angreji main ek mashur kahawat hain ki “yadi aap samman chahte ho, toh samman do” (give respect to gain respect).

Isliye samman dene se hum swabhimaan hi use prapt karne ke haqdar bante jate hain aur sath hi sath hum apne bhiter bhi khud ke liye maan peda karna sikh jate hain. Kyuki jab hum dusro ko samman dete hain, tab hum kuch time ke liye unki pratima apne man main ubharte hain. Aur un chand time main hum unhe samman dene ke sath sath pehle apne man hi man main use as it is karte hain. Aisa karte waqt hume sanyug se apne apke prati bhi maan ki anubhuti hoti hain. Matlab yadi hum sammanit jiwan jina chahte hain, toh hume sada dusro ko samman dene ka sanskaar dharad karna hi hoga.

Aaj ke iss lekh ko padhkar aap logo ko yeh pata chal chuka hoga ki hum kaise apne liye respect aur izzat kama sakte hain. Ab aap logo ko iss baat ke liye bilkul bhi tension lene ki zarurat nahi hain ki logo ki nazar main aapke liye izzat banegi ki nahi banegi. Humari aap logo se yeh request hain ki aap log inn tricks ko dhyan se padhiye aur agar ho sake toh follow bhi kariye. Hume puri ummid hain ki yeh tricks aap logo ke liye kafi fayedemand sabit honge aur aap log apne liye respect aur izzat kamane main zarur safal ho jayenge.

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